Amy McPhie Allebest
FRI, SEPT 5, 2025 | 7:30-9:00 pm MDT
WHERE:
Kristin and Chad Christensen
2857 E. Sleepy Hollow Drive
Holladay, Utah 84117
Thanks to Kristin and Chad for hosting this gathering in their home.
THE CONVERSATION:
Have you ever tried to discuss patriarchy or gender and found that your discussion ended in frustration, hurt, or even anger? If so, you are not alone. For some, the word patriarchy is associated with the word “blessing” and for others it’s something you smash. For many religious folks, it’s some of each, which can be extremely confusing.
In “What Don’t We Get About Patriarchy?” Amy McPhie Allebest will provide historical context, clear vocabulary, and helpful concepts to facilitate productive conversations on this tender and divisive topic. To prepare, please ask yourself the following questions:
1. What is the definition of patriarchy?
2. How has patriarchy affected my life? (Be unflinchingly honest! Think of everything you can!)
3. How might patriarchy affect the opposite gender? (Again, be unflinchingly honest!)
Bring an open mind and heart to this discussion, and you’ll be sure to leave with new and valuable insights.
ABOUT AMY:
Amy McPhie Allebest is a writer, teacher, and feminist historian. She holds a BA in English from BYU, an MLA from Stanford University, and is currently a PhD student in Education, Culture and Society at the University of Utah. Her 2016 essay, “Dear Mormon Man, Tell Me What You Would Do” has become a classic in the Mormon feminist canon, and her podcast and YouTube channel, “Breaking Down Patriarchy” reaches thousands every week. She loves trail running, travel, and spending time with her husband and four kids.
CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE RECORDED ZOOM CONVERSATION
I’m delighted those who can’t attend in person can join virtually. I’m sorry I can’t give you the same care and attention given to those in person. Please contact me if you have suggestions for improvement.
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ZOOM ETIQUETTE:
- Please mute your microphone before entering and when you are not speaking so noises are not heard by everyone else.
- If you are going to multitask—not recommended—or wander around a lot, please turn off your video and make sure you are muted. No one wants to be distracted by you eating or using the loo.
